@absiste

Please use the name/pronouns of who is fronting - what's listed here is collective/if in doubt.
Name lists aren't always complete - some people have names they don't use in public. If you're given a name that isn't here, you're still good to use it in non-public places.
As long as we know who you are and have interacted positively, you're fine to use things marked "friends". Please ask/wait to be told for "close friends".